Unlock Your Potential: Here Are Essential Tips to Build Life Skills.
Have you ever wondered why some people get ahead and others do not? That’s because “smarts” are just a small part of what is required for success and well-being (take the well-being quiz here to learn more). We also need to develop life skills, which include a mixture of psychological and behavioral skills. In this post, we’ll talk about what life skills are, provide examples of life skills, and discuss how to build the most important life skills.
What Are Life Skills?
Life skills can be defined as abilities that enable humans to deal effectively with the demands and challenges of life. They may also be called psychosocial skills, as they are psychological in nature and include thinking and behavioral processes. Others define life skills as behavioral, cognitive, or interpersonal skills that enable individuals to succeed in various areas of life (Hodge, Danish, & Martin, 2013).
Life skills are often broken down into three types (Prajapati, Sharma, & Sharma, 2017):
Thinking skills: This might involve being able to think of multiple solutions to a problem or develop new innovations in a creative way.
Social skills: This might involve knowing how to develop healthy relationships, how to communicate in effective ways, and how to interact with others successfully.
Emotional skills: This might involve being comfortable in your own skin, dealing with emotions effectively, and knowing who you are.
Research suggests that developing life skills may help reduce drug, alcohol, and tobacco use. It may also reduce aggression and violence (Botvin & Griffin, 2004). In addition to these bigger outcomes, life skills can just make life a bit easier. When we can regulate our emotions effectively and develop enduring, supportive relationships, we’re happier and healthier. This is why developing life skills is key not only to being successful in life; it’s also essential for our health and well-being.
Examples of Life Skills
According to several key organizations, including UNICEF, UNESCO, and WHO, the following are the basic life skills (Prajapati, Sharma, & Sharma, 2017):
Self-awareness
Critical thinking
Creative thinking
Decision-making
Problem-solving
Effective communication
Interpersonal relationships
Empathy
Coping with stress
Coping with emotion
Of course, these skills overlap, with each of them aiding and supporting the others. There may also be other life skills and subcategories within each of these basic life skill types.
Building Life Skills
It is difficult to build life skills simply by reading about them. Building life skills often involves engaging in activities that require the skill. With time and practice, these activities help you get better at the given life skill. So, here are a few activities that can help you build life skills that lead to well-being:
Loving-kindness meditation: This type of meditation focuses on imagining sending love to the self and others. It can help cultivate life skills like compassion, kindness, love, and other important relationship skills.
Gratitude journaling: Writing a journal with lists and stories of the things you’re grateful for is a great way to build your emotional coping skills. Gratitude is one of those skills that actually sticks. Once you’ve built this skill, your brain can find it easier to be grateful even when you’re not trying.
Affirmations: Affirmations involve saying a positive statement, usually about ourselves, out loud. This can help us develop more positive feelings about ourselves, boost our confidence, and improve our sense of self-worth.
Final Thoughts on Life Skills
There are so many life skills we could build that improve our lives. It can often be hard to know where to start. Generally, we benefit from building the skills we’re worst at—that way, we can see the biggest gains. But, if you’re having a hard time getting started, just pick something easy and enjoyable. Then you can move on to more difficult life skills later on.
Article By Suzy Nyongesa.
